ok maybe being self centered have its own disadvantage n advantages...but not too much...4 example my ex bandmate who jus left the band n now he's playin in another band...one of the reason he gave was nobody listens to him...ohh shit!! he's the one who orders da the rest of the bandmates to coordinate,communicate n even cover his own original...wat does he meant by dat...? isnt dat being damn self centered....we da rest of us have our own responsibilities as in sch,family n der u go seeking attention n don give a damn of how da rest feels huh..? bullshit....sorry 4 my manners but being self centered to me is relly a bad habit or attitude as how u guys see it...learn how to give in,understand how ur frens or family etc feels,give opinions bout how da individual shld face it n not being like "hey im da one who doing it n u shld noe how i feel!" don ever do dat guys ....aite...so peace....