... deserve to be with the people that they're with.

 and i'm saying that without one bit of irony. and no, it's not a case of "the fox and the grapes." i just realized that some people are better suited for other people (than me). there's no bitterness about it. because its not about me, or even who's more attractive, or who's a better catch. it's not about that at all. it's about love. or at least i hope it is.

you can not deny what the heart wants. and just because someone seems wrong for someone, it does not change how they feel for one another. and i am in no position to judge. there are greater forces at work here. all i can do at this point is to wish them happiness (and actually mean it). and hopefully when i find myself falling for someone who's all wrong for me, that people will be supportive and not judge me or whoever i'm with.

that's all.