It seems like a year I've been kept all this stuffs inside my head and waiting for it BOOM out!!! First of all,i would like to say this is not about anger,misunderstanding,revenge,back stabbed or whatever. It just..what should i say, yeah it's a feeling about others. Me, still do not get why this behavior of unappreciated must exist in any relationship..of course it's not just for lovers but anything like friendship or a relation among people and other living. For an example, unappreciated in sex. Once, i pay a visit to a very long time colleague. She's married with a man that was her boyfriend for 6 years. Now, it's been 2 years and they still don't have a child. When my first glance at her, i can saw and felt it's a really big problem she have to face. She was acted like they were happy belong each other but not until I've finished my first bite of brownies she started to cried. I said, "hey wut up?". She reached for my hand and now the real story of their life has begin. At first five months they were started to be a husband and wife, all seems like a joy and happiness. They lived like other couple and planning to have kids. By the way, her hubby have a very own bad habit that he can't throw away from his life which is wacthing porno. They actually have a normal sex rutine but now her hubby more into 'do on my own'. She told me that her hubby seems like very happy doing that thing compared to have a sex with his wife. If they were having sex 12x a month before, now she just can get it 3 or 4x, even hardly once a month. Depends on her hubby's mood. From here, i am very confused and refused why mens always like this? Sorry, i'm not pointed my finger by judging this is men's mistake. Sometimes, womens also have to accept this thing by trying to think back what they haven't done to fulfill their men's needs. But, what if they actually don't have any problem with their sex? Of course this is men's false. How could you guys treated your wife like they do not have their own need of sex? Mens always selfish and just think that womens only have desire to do sex when they do. Hello, we also have a nafsu la. I am wondering, is guy who likes to watch porno also think about 'porno girl' while they having sex with their partner? If that so, what for they married if mens only enjoyed to masturbate or oral sex compare than have on their own partner? That's so disgusting and really UNAPPRECIATED!!!